Preparing to Die?
Years ago, I had a friend whose 18-year-old daughter was killed in a car accident as she drove back to college. She was instantly killed when her car struck a barrier in the median. It was unbelievably painful attending that young lady's funeral. She was a strong athlete with a seemingly bright future ahead of her. About a month after her death, another friend's 11-year-old son died following a four-year battle against bone cancer. Since the age of seven, this precious boy had been in a mountain of pain and had endured treatments that seemed like a cruel scientific experiment. Not long after both of these young people died, I was talking to the dad of the 18-year-old girl as he told me about the conversation he had just had with the mom of the 11-year-old boy. In that conversation, she told him that she knew it must be harder for him to lose his child than for her because it happened so suddenly, without warning. He replied to her that he thought it was worse for her because